Excerpt from "20 Pieces of Advice to My Sisters Before Her Marriage"

As’Salamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh

Yaa Ahkwaat! I have come across another good read I must say  so far in my reading of this book the Shaikh really knows the women Ajeeb! Truly we are a creature of habit  everything that I have read from this book I have heard this before from my Great Grand Mother, Grand Mother, Mother, Aunts, etc  but growing up in a family where the women out numbered the men, out did the men it was kind of hard in life to really know how to treat a man let alone appreciate him  some of us tend to do to  little or go too far in our treatment  toward our husband. Islam has really showed me how to be a real woman. This book is for every sister the one who is married, single, and looking to get married my advice is to GET THIS BOOK!  If you don’t have it already.

You will learn that there are some things that you knew already but you left off of them. A woman already knows who she wants for a husband but now she must learn how to keep him. And this is where this book comes in handy  strictly Kitaab and Sunnah

The Shaikh mentions four types of women I will give you the second type:

Second Type: From amongst them are: the Shafsha’leeq, Sah’sha, Salfa’a possessor of saturated poison, a spark of light yet worn out, she moves with the husband says “No” she says “Yes” if he says “Yes” she says “No” she is born to disgrace him. She looks down at the good he has done for her and belittles him by comparing him to others men. She moves him from one state to another, to the point that his home has become insignificant to him and his children have become a source of boredom. His life festers and he looks down upon himself. His brothers criticize him and his neighbors have mercy on him.

The Shaikh give the definition of the words which are bolded but you have to read the book to learn what they mean and once you do you are going to hit yourself and be like I have to get on point right now. Lol,lol,

Taken from “20 Pieces of Advice to My Sister Before Her Marriage”  By: Ash-Sheikh Badr Al-Utaybee page:34

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Ok Ladies!  “Happy Reading”